Archive for October, 2007

Playing it Safe in Cyber-Space

October 30th, 2007  |  Filed Under Internet Safety and Your Teen

By Lisa K. Schkloven, LCSW-C 

Here’s a riddle, Mom and Dad…

It can “virtually’ take you anywhere in the blink of an eye and provide information in an instant. Its ability to let you invite others into your home is limitless and, no matter how secure your locks or alarm, it’s like …

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Teens and the Internet: Understanding Net Surfing

October 30th, 2007  |  Filed Under Internet Safety and Your Teen

Why Teens Find Surfing the ‘Net so Enticing and Why You Need to Understand the Dangers
By Lisa K. Schkloven, LCSW-C

Today surfing is easy, whether your teen is near the waves or not. “Surfing” has taken on a new meaning, thanks to the internet. Because of the internet, the “community” of …

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Teens and the Internet: Ensuring Safe Surfing

October 30th, 2007  |  Filed Under Internet Safety and Your Teen

By Lisa K. Schkloven, LCSW-C 

Adolescents are going to surf the internet and connect with others online. Online social connection sites such as MySpace and Facebook are, as many teens call them, the preferred way to “hang out”. Therefore, parents need to engage teens in ongoing conversations about cyber-safety, set boundaries …

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The Secret World of Adolescent Communication

October 30th, 2007  |  Filed Under Internet Safety and Your Teen

Compiled by Lisa K. Schkloven, LCSW-C 

Below is a list of common acronyms teens use in their everyday communication with one another. These acronyms are used whether teens are texting, IMing, chatting online, blogging or posting in a newsgroup forum. This list, courtesy of NetLingo™, will help familiarize you with some …

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The Adolescent Brain: A Work in Progress

October 30th, 2007  |  Filed Under Understanding Teen Development

By Lisa K. Schkloven, LCSW-C 

If you’re living with an adolescent it’s a good idea to understand what’s going on. Adolescence is a time of rapid physical, cognitive, emotional, social and moral development and change.

As the parent of a teenager, how many times have you either thought or said the following: …

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Setting Limits and Negotiating Boundaries on Your Teen’s Internet Use

October 30th, 2007  |  Filed Under Internet Safety and Your Teen

By Lisa K. Schkloven, LCSW-C

As the parent, you need to set some boundaries and limits on your teenager’s use of the computer. Here are some suggestions.

1. Keep the computer in a room other than the child’s bedroom.
This way you can monitor what your child is doing online and for …

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Helping your Teen Through Adolescence

October 30th, 2007  |  Filed Under Understanding Teen Development

By Lisa K. Schkloven, LCSW-C 

Want to help your teen during this time of complex brain development and hormonal changes? Here are some suggestions:

1. Provide structure:
Teens need to have limits because they have difficulty putting on the brakes. Have regular and predictable curfew times and stick to them. When your teen …

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Worth the Read

October 25th, 2007  |  Filed Under Internet Safety and Your Teen

MySpace Unraveled: What It Is and How to Use It Safely
by Larry Magid and Anne Collier

Description from back cover of book:

In this timely and indispensable guide to MySpace for parents, online safety experts Larry Magid and Anne Collier demystify the world’s largest social network. This concise, hands-on book explores how …

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